Thursday 4 October 2012


THE DIVORCE TEST 

 TAKE THE TEST AND 
PRAY  BEFORE YOU ACT




Dr. Oren Hernandez, a Florida marriage counselor, developed an eight question "Divorce Test," which he claims can help determine if your marriage is on the right track. Is your marriage headed for divorce? Answer these 8 questions to find out if your spouse is right for you.
The questions:
  1. Money is the number one cause of arguments in our relationship.
  2.        a. Never
           b. Sometime
           c. Always
  3. Do you believe arguing is healthy?
  4.        a. Sometime
           b. Always
           c. Never
  5. We have trouble communicating with each other.
  6.        a. Never
           b. Sometime
           c. Always
  7. I'm satisfied with our sex life.
  8.         a. Always
            b. Sometime
            c. Never
  9. I trust my spouse completely?
  10.         a. Always
            b. Sometime
            c. Never
  11. Is taking time for myself in a marriage important?
  12.        a. Always
           b. Sometime
           c. Never
  13. I am worried that my spouse has the potential to be unfaithful.
  14.        a. Never
           b. Sometime
           c. Always
  15. Spirituality is important in our relationship.
     a. Always
     b. Sometime
     c. Never
The Scoring:
  • To score, count the number of `A's" you have as answers. A perfect score is all 'A's.
  • If you scored between six and eight A's - Dr. Hernandez says - your relationship is in pretty good shape.
  • If you score between four and six, Dr. Hernandez says there may be something you might want to look at. And four and below? Dr. Hernandez says, definitely question your spouse.
The key to any successful relationship is communication; by now your test results should have you and your spouse talking.

Your Happiness or Theirs?

Your Happiness or Theirs?


This statement kills me but, it really does boil down to just that.  

And so you stay.   

Because a good mother always places the needs of her children above her own.  

Unlike 99% of the male population